if you go a social worker route I have (1) problem child who never grew up out of that phase so maybe she could have been an old case of Kerry's that she never could stop from checking in on LADY I'M ALMOST 21 AND YOU'RE NOT MY MOM STOP IT

no but seriously pester this metal-head amputee drummer and if she is lucky Yang can help with some of those feelings in terms of what to AVOID when seeking relationships (even if her default answer to that is: "don't." "don't what?" "anything. just don't.")