okay like there's no nice way to say this, but honestly anna is, like, a hair's breadth away from cold-cocking derek at basically all times. she doesn't think he's capable of reading situations and reacting like a regular normal human person would, she's still pissed about the dream because it still doesn't feel like a dream to her, and she doesn't feel like he cares about her or listens to her when she talks.

but she doesn't think any of it (except the dream) is on purpose, usually, so she's willing to tolerate him and acknowledge when he does actually say or do something useful, and whether she likes it or not he is still here. so that means she has a duty to try to keep him safe because of who she is as a person. he's just, like. he's so Much, sometimes.