omg that is absolutely fabulous! bring this boy over to this girl's life so they can both be awesome to each other. she'll try her best to wave off most of it, because she is very transparent about most stuff while making jokes, but once she notices his other life is similar to her own, then she'll be more open towards him than most other people. it would be nice for her to have a confidant to rely on outside of the family that aren't jerks.