i haven't decided yet how to address the gender thing with phos. are they intersex? if so, were they raised as female & it went awry? do they just not feel comfortable being labeled as one thing or another; or do they feel ok being mistaken for anything? TOUGH QUESTIONS!! but they'd probably dress in a way that would be interpreted as effeminate.

man if he does that peyton wouldnt know what to do at first but it'd drive them crazy. then they'd probably blow up their phone with cute animal pictures (or cats from the cat cafe, if peyton ever lands that job!!!)